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Lennox Kalifungwa

Unwanted Gifts: Diet Plans, Cufflinks, And Soap On A String Top List, Sparking Disappointment And Awkwardness

A poll of 2,000 adults found 75% receive up to seven presents each year which they’ll never use - with friends, children and colleagues labelled as the worst present givers.  PHOTO BY EKATERINA BOLOVTSOVA/PEXELS

The most unwanted gifts people receive are diet plans, cufflinks and soap on a string.

A poll of 2,000 adults found 75% receive up to seven presents each year which they’ll never use – with friends, children and colleagues labelled as the worst present givers. 

Bad romance novels, hankies and aftershave were seen as other dull items to be gifted on birthdays, Christmas and beyond. 

While 57% don’t welcome clothing of any kind being selected by someone else. 

The research, commissioned by personalised book publishers, Wonderbly and conducted by OnePoll, found when reacting to an unwanted present, 27% graciously accept it while 17% pretend to be delighted.

The research, commissioned by personalised book publishers, Wonderbly and conducted by OnePoll, found when reacting to an unwanted present, 27% graciously accept it while 17% pretend to be delighted. PHOTO BY KIM STIVER/PEXELS

However, a tenth show no emotion and simply ‘do nothing’ and 21% have even fallen out with a loved one over a terrible present.

Not wanting them to go to waste, 26% donate their disappointing gifts to charity while 14% adopt an ‘out of sight, out of mind’ mantra by hiding them in the house.

And while a shameful 18% rewrap and regift to someone else, 22% said they have previously experienced this themselves.

Of those who have ever been given their own gift, 32% ended up telling them but 31% decided to say nothing as they are too embarrassed.

“Giving and receiving gifts is one of life’s little joys,” said the brand’s spokesperson.

“There’s a great deal of emotion in gift giving, the perfect gift can leave someone speechless while the wrong one can cause feelings of disappointment.”

When watching someone open a present they clearly don’t want, 22% are filled with disappointment, while a quarter feel anxious and awkward the receiver is disappointed.

Nonetheless, 39% rate their gift giving skills as ‘pretty good’ with only 4% admitting they are ‘terrible’.

When it comes to great gifts, photobooks, gift vouchers and something which has been made by their children have been voted as some of the best.

The research, commissioned by personalised book publishers, Wonderbly and conducted by OnePoll, found when reacting to an unwanted present, 27% graciously accept it while 17% pretend to be delighted. PHOTO BY KIM STIVER/PEXELS

Partners take the crown for the top gift givers followed by children and moms.

When receiving these types of presents, 21% experience pure happiness and a further 21% feel grateful.

The study also found 77% prefer something that feels like a lot of thought has gone into it – with 70% agreeing personalized gifts mean more to people.

Nearly four in 10 (39%) says these types of presents show that an extra level of effort has been made and 25% believes it provides an emotional connection.

 “Giving gifts a little more thought really goes a long way to the person receiving it, but also to the person who gives it,” the spokesperson added.

“Choosing a present for a friend or loved one can be really rewarding and when you get it right, it’s often a gift that’s treasured forever.”

TOP 50 WORST GIFTS TO RECEIVE

  1. Bad romance novels
  2. Diet plan
  3. Car manual
  4. Soap on a string
  5. Children’s toys
  6. Cufflinks
  7. A tie
  8. Hankies
  9. Aftershave
  10. Movies you’ve already seen
  11. New map of the United States
  12. Cleaning products
  13. Joke books
  14. Address books
  15. New windscreen wipers
  16. Sports memorabilia
  17. De-icer
  18. Boxers or pants
  19. Mousepad
  20. Dressing gown
  21. Apron
  22. Party games
  23. A scarf
  24. Chocolate coins
  25. Calendars
  26. Bath salts /bubble bath
  27. Iron
  28. Anti-ageing products
  29. Potpourri
  30. Car maintenance kit
  31. One of those packs with beer or gin with a glass to drink it out of
  32. Crossword book
  33. Gym membership
  34. Hamper
  35. Chocolate fondue set
  36. Photo frames
  37. Hairdryer
  38. Knitwear
  39. Slogan t-shirts
  40. Novelty socks
  41. Perfume
  42. Lingerie
  43. Electric toothbrush
  44. A mug
  45. Stationary
  46. Bottle of booze
  47. Slippers
  48. Toiletry kits
  49. Electric blanket
  50. Foot spa

Produced in association with SWNS Research

(Additional reporting provided by Talker Research)

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