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Sleep expert shares exact time children should go to bed

Parents face a number of daily challenges, and getting little ones to go to sleep is certainly up there with the biggest.

Often kids will refuse to go to bed, or fail to sleep through the night, leaving pretty much everyone feeling shattered. But according to a sleep guru, the key to getting children to sleep is all to do with routine.

Jennifer Robinson, also known as The Happy Sleep Coach, has shared expert advice for getting kids to sleep with the Mirror, including what time of the evening parents should be aiming to have their little one all tucked up in bed.

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The mum-of-two, who predominantly works with children aged between 18 weeks and seven years old, says she encourages her clients to follow a seven-to-seven sleep schedule as much as possible. Jennifer said: "So a 7pm bedtime and a 7am wake up is what we would aim for".

However, this might not suit every child and there are times when you can bring bedtime forward by an hour or so. She added: "If you find your child is waking before six or seven o'clock in the morning then we would bring the bedtime forward to counteract that.

"We generally say 12 hours awake and 12 hours asleep for a child who is nine months old and that carries on all the way until they are at least seven years old. Before nine months bedtimes can vary significantly as it would depend on the baby's daytime sleep and how late their last nap was."

The expert continued: "Children get so tired, especially when starting nursery and school as the new environments are so stimulating for them, but how tired they are will also depend on how much sleep they've had during the day from naps. A lot of children start dropping naps at the age of three and we often start seeing night wakes or early rising at that point.

"The loss of the nap, coupled with the super stimulating environment they're in during the day, running around getting very tired, can see children getting themselves into an overtired cycle. A sign of this may be that your child is falling asleep really easily in the car on the way home as they're so tired."

Jennifer adds that in this situation, you'd want to bring the bedtime forward to 6pm instead of 7pm, otherwise you may just be fuelling the overtired cycle.

She explains that many parents often mistakenly believe that if their child is waking up before 7am it must mean they've had too much sleep and the bedtime needs to be later, but actually it's the opposite and they need to go to bed earlier.

Jennifer added: "While the aim is seven until seven and that's what I tell my clients, some children just don't sleep until 7am every day, but as long as they are getting their fill of sleep overnight and the right amount of sleep for their age, it's ok.

"Most parents don't want their kids going to bed at eight or nine o'clock at night, as they might want to eat after they're asleep and have some 'me time'. It might sound selfish, but parents need to be the best versions of themselves to be the best parents they can be and if they're tired and haven't had time to wash their hair or make dinner, they're not going to be in the right frame of mind."

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