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Sean McPolin

Same-sex couple finally get their dream wedding after being turned down by 31 churches

A same-sex couple who said they were turned down 31 times to be married in a church have finally tied the knot.

On the 32nd time of calling churches in the south east Shane Yerrell, 39, and David Sparrey, 30, were finally given the green light.

The pair, from Waltham Abbey, Essex, had the ceremony at Wansted United Reformed Church in East London, last month, the Bristol Post reports.

Originally, the loved-up pair had made the decision to wait to marry but, a family health issued changed their minds and they began looking for somewhere for their special day.

Shane, who is deputy mayor for Waltham Abbey and a councillor for Epping Forest, spent "up to 15 hours" on the phone trying to find a venue.

The Essex couple tied the knot in front of 100 guests (Ellie Stewart / SWNS)

He said: "Honestly, I'd all but given up. But when I spoke to Reverend Tessa I was literally shouting with joy and jumping round the room. David didn't believe me.

"When we met Tessa she said, 'I can see you love each other, love is love'. It was the most amazing feeling.

"She said, 'Everyone deserves to marry the person they love' - and she's right. The day was so special. That church was a light at the end of a tunnel. They are so brave and we will always be so grateful to them.

"It really wasn't easy but it was more than worth it all. We thought it would never happen. It was like [the churches] were all reading a script - 'We'd love to, but no'."

Shane and David are both Christians and met through a mutual friend in 2014 and were officially a couple just two years later.

The pair finally got lucky on the 32nd attempt and married at a church in Wanstead, East London (Ellie Stewart / SWNS)

David, an electrical engineer, popped the question while they duo were on a family holiday in Crete.

David walked down the aisle first with his mum, Dawn Bond, 56. And Shane was given away by mum Maria Markham, 58, and grandmother Iris Markham, 79.

More than 100 guests joined them for their special day, with an extra 40 joining them at their reception at Waltham Abbey Town Hall.

David added: "It was a day I'll never forget. We were surrounded by so much love on the day. It was the perfect wedding.

After a long wait, and 15 hours of calls, the pair finally tied the knot (Ellie Stewart / SWNS)

"We were over the moon when the church agreed to marry us. Everything felt complete. I had hoped Shane's patience and determination would pay off and it did."

"It was so moving, overwhelming," Shane explained.

"I could hardly believe it. It really was the most special moment.

"We had done it and we hadn't had to settle for something we wanted less. I'm delighted we're part of that church's history, we've made friends for life.

"Gay people just don't think it is possible, but if you are a same-sex couple and you want to get married in a church just don't give up. I think a lot of churches are frightened of a backlash - people saying it isn't what the bible says.

"But I think they could find a way of interpreting that for themselves and making it possible, after all, love is love no matter whether you're gay or straight."

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