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Julia Banim & Peter Diamond

Rude message on dad's grave horrifies cemetery staff despite family's approval

A family has paid tribute to their beloved father in comic fashion after secretly including an explicit message on his gravestone.

After dad Steven Owens died, his family sneakily included his favoured “term of endearment” in the headstone inscription. On first glance it looks like a fairly standard, touching message of remembrance.

However, those who look carefully will see that, when you add together the first letter of each line, you get a far more outrageous epitaph, with Steven permitted one final “F*** off” from beyond the grave.

Yet whilst the Owens family have found it hilarious, staff at the cemetery haven’t found it so funny and have even complained that they should remove the slur.

The swear words had been the dad's "term of endearment" (CNN)

The Owens family says the message was meant as a harmless way to remember him, with Steven having regularly used the term “F*** off” in a jokey manner, according to Mirror Online.

The marker reads: “Forever in our hearts. Until we meet again. Cherished memories. Known as. Our son, brother. Father, papa, uncle. Friend and cousin.”

Speaking with the news station WIBW, Steven’s daughter Lindsay Owens said: “It was definitely his term of endearment. If he didn’t like you, he didn’t speak to you. It’s just who he was.”

Unfortunately, staff at the Warren-Powers Cemetery in Polk County, Iowa, reportedly aren’t so keen on the unique memorial and have been against it from the very start.

Staff members feel such profanity is unsuitable for a place of eternal rest, but the Owens family is hopeful the controversial gravestone will stay put.

Steven’s son Zachary Owens added: “No one’s forcing anyone to come out and look at it. That’s a choice that you make. We didn’t do it to offend anyone, make anyone mad or hurt anyone’s feelings.

“We did it because it was our father, and we love him, and that’s how we remember him.”

Cemetery staff aren't best pleased about the mischievous epitaph on Steven's headstone (CNN)

It’s unclear at the time of writing whether or not the Owens family will have no choice but to swap the headstone for something more traditional.

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