Having an affair on the cheap is putting lovers at greater risk of getting caught, according to Illicitencounters.com. The extra marital affairs website polled 3,000 of its newest members on their cheating habits – with 71% admitting to engaging in riskier behaviour in a desperate attempt to keep their affair secret, whilst saving money amid the cost-of-living crisis.
Over three quarters of those polled chose “within 5km” when asked how far they were now willing to travel to meet a potential new lover – compared to the 5-year average distance of 20km according to Illicit Encounters. Over half (51%) of that group cited travel expenses as the main reason.
Illicit Encounters spokesperson, Jessica Leoni said: “We’re seeing more and more lovers prepared to look closer to home to save on costs and the obvious implication of that is an increased risk of getting caught by someone you know.”
The research also revealed traditional affair rendezvous such as swanky hotels, and romantic weekend breaks are being replaced with budget options – thanks to disposable income taking a good hammering. When given the option, 59% said they’d now choose a walk in the park over being wined and dined on the first date.
63% are risking meeting their lovers in their own home over booking a romantic night in a hotel where they’re guaranteed the safety and security of keeping things secret. This has increased from 24% in 2017. And 21% said they’d even met up with their lover roadside in their car, to save cash.
39% did admit that the increased risk through sticking closer to home has made their lover more attractive to them. The other 61% are terrified of being found out - admitting they have only taken such risks as they feel there is no other choice due to tightening purse strings.
In previous research by Illicit Encounters, 1,000 members were polled on the question do you think the cost-of-living crisis is impacting your marriage and making you more likely to cheat? With an overwhelming 85% answering yes.
Leoni added: “The research paints a picture of lovers adapting to the current economic crisis and proves an affair doesn’t have to be like the sort you see on TV to be fulfilling. In fact, the heightened risk levels of an affair playing out in the public eye is clearly a thrill for some.”
Emma, 44 from Lincoln, said: “I met my lover 4 months ago through the website. We both work full time, but expense has been at the front of our minds, so we’ve cut back on what we spend when we meet up. It’s helped me get to know my boyfriend on a different level much quicker than usual because fancy nights out and expensive private dates can be a cover when you first meet someone.”
