If home is your safe space, you’ll appreciate the pleasure of shutting the front door and settling into your personal sanctuary. Maybe you’ve filled it with quiet luxury pieces that bring a sense of ease and comfort, or you’re taking the dopamine decor approach and using colour to boost your mood at home.
But there’s a new technique that can take happy home decorating to the next level. Nostalgiacore is all about tapping into times in the past when we’ve felt happy and relaxed, and choosing decor and accessories that remind us of those times to reduce anxiety today.
Dr David Crepaz-Keay, head of research and applied learning at Mental Health Foundation, explains more. ‘Surrounding ourselves with nostalgic items that evoke a sense of familiarity and comfort can create a safe space that serves as a refuge from the stresses of daily life,’ he says. ‘Nostalgia has a unique way of transporting us back to a time when things felt simpler and more secure, evoking positive emotions and a sense of connection to our personal history. This connection to the past can provide a grounding effect, helping to reduce feelings of anxiety and providing a sense of calm in our present moment.’
Nostalgiacore – how to use your decor to reduce feelings of anxiety
'Our homes can be a powerful connection to ourselves. So when it comes to creating a calm, anxiety-reducing space, there are so many things that we can add in or tweak to help the feeling of familiarity and safety in our surroundings,' suggests success and mindset coach – and former interiors journalist – Nicola Wilkes.
Our experiences and memories are personal, so there’s no rulebook for nostalgiacore. But there are key ideas and products that might help us to create safe surroundings, so we feel less anxious and more relaxed at home. We spoke to the experts and found out the anxiety-easing (and gorgeous) items you can introduce to your feel-good space.
1. A fire or woodburner
'I think everyone needs a space in their home that provides them with some tranquility and thinking space, which is often triggered in the form of nostalgia,' says mindset coach, Nicola Wilkes.
'In the winter months, that can be the feeling of lighting the wood burner and curling up with a blanket. For me, even though I didn't grow up with a real fire, it's still the feeling of crowding around a warm fire in the living room that "takes me back" to a time when my mum would have been making the room cosy and warm for us ahead of an evening together.'
2. A comforting quilt or blanket
At the end of my bed, I have a beautiful handmade quilt that my mum made for me – and that’s nostalgiacore in a nutshell, according to Marianne Shillingford, colour expert at Dulux. Her job is all about understanding the drivers behind our decor choices, and translating them into products that we can use to create the atmosphere we want at home.
‘I’ve seen a great resurgence in collecting things from the past, our heritage pieces – so for example, Granny's blankets becomes the centre of our decorating scheme,’ she says. ‘Those nostalgic things make us feel part of a community and a story that's bigger than ourselves, and that can be comforting,’ she says.
If you don’t have a familiar blanket or throw to wrap yourself up in, you can replicate that ‘hug’ effect with a weighted blanket to help with sleep and feelings of security.
‘We love plush, weighted blankets which are reassuring due to the comforting pressure they provide and the feeling of the soft texture under your fingertips,’ says Franky Rousell, founder of sensory-led design studio, Jolie.
3. A cosy club chair
Yes, our living room seating ideas can help give us a feeling of safety and security – especially when it’s a piece that supports our body and seems to wrap around us with a hug.
‘Vegan leather club armchairs are a great example of calming design,’ explains sensory design expert, Franky Rousell at Jolie. ‘The shape of smaller armchairs encompasses you, while the sensation of pressure on the tops of our arms and back has been scientifically proven to reduce heart rate and stress levels, similar to a relaxing massage. Furthermore, the feeling of the vegan leather evokes the comfort and feel of human touch, which is why they have become such a nostalgic staple over the years.’
If vegan leather isn’t your thing, you could choose nubbly bouclé or soft velvet upholstery to bring that textural feel.
4. Meaningful photos and artworks
If you’ve done any mindfulness and stress-reduction exercises, you’re probably familiar with the instruction to visualise your favourite place and imagine yourself there, feeling happy and relaxed. But you don’t need to picture a place in your mind’s eye – you can put a photo of it on a gallery wall instead.
‘Nostalgiacore can be about discovering a box in the attic full of old photographs, then spending the weekend creating a way to display them,’ says Marianne Shillingford. ‘Or you might frame a piece of fabric from your mum’s dress, then pick out a colour from it to base your decorating scheme on. Things that connect us with the past are inherently good for the soul, I think.’
Marianne has used this technique in her own home, by displaying paintings left to her by her dad, and using the Dulux colour visualiser tool to pick out shades from the artworks to use in her decorating palette.
‘You can take a photograph of the picture or the thing you love, put it in the centre of the moodboard, then pick colours out of it and see how they are going to work in your space,’ she says.
5. A soothing colour scheme
‘Colour is intrinsically linked to the psyche and plays a huge role in helping to define a person’s mood,’ explains sensory design expert, Franky Rousell from interiors company, Jolie. ‘Different hues and shades can make people feel creative, reduce anxiety, calm or motivate them.’
Franky recommends decorating in calming colours, such as soft and gentle shades of blue, to soothe restless minds and create a relaxing atmosphere. ‘If you want a more energising colour, then a bright, fresh and uplifting yellow is a good shade to embrace in a bedroom colour scheme – especially if you want to become a morning person.
Try it out at home
Curl up in front of this contemporary-style wood burner and relax as you watch the flames. British-made and with clean-burn technology.
