A mum who had nine miscarriages before her miracle son arrived urged couples struggling to conceive to "never lose hope". Pamela Mackenzie gave birth to Patrick in 2018 after deciding to go to Prague for IVF treatment.
She and her husband Ian had been desperately trying for a baby for 18 years – including having two rounds of IVF on the NHS. Pamela, who was diagnosed with PCOS aged 12, said her pregnancies never made it past the first five weeks.
She started to look at private clinics abroad after hearing they had higher success rates. And after her first round of IVF she fell pregnant.
Pamela, from Edinburgh, said: “Me and my husband had been trying to have a baby for 18 years but every time we got pregnant it just ended in miscarriage. In that time I had nine miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy.
“At the time IVF at a private clinic in UK was around £6,500 but we found a clinic in Prague where is cost less than £5,000. I got pregnant on the first try, I couldn’t believe it after 18 years of trying because nothing else had worked."
Pamela had endured a gruelling process of monitoring her ovulation before starting on tablets for six months, and then injections, before being considered for IVF. Her first IVF on the NHS in 2010 failed, she fell pregnant on the second round in 2011, but miscarried.
Pamela said: “The NHS have a limited budget and are so short-staffed, there is only so much they can do. After two rounds of IVF we were left on our own to figure out what was next.
“We went to a private clinic in Glasgow and paid £2,500 for an embryo transfer because I had two frozen ones left from my second round of IVF. But only one survived the thaw and the cells didn’t multiple they way they should so we weren’t able to use them. At the clinic in Prague it felt like a family, there was more time spent with us.”
Pamela now volunteers as an advisor for the International Fertility Company which helps patients identify clinics abroad for treatment. She said: “I spent hours doing research into clinics. But when I found the International Fertility Company I thought this could take so much stress away for other women looking abroad.
"What I went through was a complete nightmare and I want to reassure other women that going abroad is ok. People feel safe staying in the UK but I want to help women see there are options elsewhere.”
Andrew Coutts, chief executive officer, at the International Fertility Company, set up the firm in 2017 to help women look at options abroad. He has visited more than 150 fertility clinics worldwide and is known ‘Mr Fertility’ by some of his patients.
He said: “I set the International Fertility Company up in 2017 and have been working in the fertility sector for over ten years advising patients about treatment options both in their own country and abroad. In the last decade I have visited over 150 fertility clinics worldwide and IFC now has clinic networks in over 21 countries.
“IFC works with small numbers of patients and therefore I can take time to develop close relationships with couples I consider as friends rather than ‘clients’. IFC has offices in the UK, US and the Netherlands and helps patients wherever they live. Spain, Greece, the Czech Republic and Cyprus are the most popular destinations but we also have U.S. couples enquiring about treatment in the UK"