A mum who fled the Russian invasion of Ukraine thought she was being scammed because her new life in the UK is "too good to be true".
The mother of six, Liliya Onopa, now lives in a bungalow created for her by a small school community in Chepstow. Her three youngest children all go to nearby St Mary’s RC Primary School, where, she she said, they are settling in well.
The cosy space had been decorated beautifully with no stone unturned. Liliya, speaking through a translator as she comes to grips with English, could not believe her luck with the plush trappings of her new home.
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Her new home is less than a stone’s throw from the school. In fact, the community have worked tirelessly to ensure the house met the standards required to house Liliya and her boys.
Liliya told WalesOnline : "There are scissors for manicures, there are even slippers for us all. It's those little things, when we came here for the first night there was a hot meal for the children."
After what Liliya has been through in the space of a horrendous few months, little acts of kindness have gone a long way. But at the start she couldn't believe it, and even now she finds it difficult to understand why.
Her translator, Julia Dubin, said: "She kept asking: 'Why? Is it a scam? I don't understand why people are doing so much for us.' But I keep saying to her that it’s different here.
"The people here want to help each other and they are desperate to help her. I tell her that there doesn't have to be a 'why'."
Before Russia invaded Ukraine Liliya lost her four-year-old daughter Liza in a fire at their home in Mar’ivka, she had already lost 13-year-old daughter Vladochka as well. So when Russian forces approached, she said that, despite the hostility she could face, she felt she had to risk fleeing the country.
She took to Facebook to track down the creators of the Chepstow refugee bungalow after seeing stories about their efforts online. And that’s how she met organisers of the project and governors of the school, Phil Cotterell and Francis Tindall.
As soon as she spoke to Phil she said she knew she needed to try and get to Chepstow. Liliya said: "We knew how dangerous the journey would be, Russian aggressors were bombing every route because they knew people were trying to escape.
"We had planned to go by Odesa but the route there was so devastated it was too much. We then planned to go by Lviv but then that was targeted."
"Many people were coming to us and offering transport but would then say they no longer wanted to because it was too dangerous. Many were popping up like mushrooms trying to take as much money as they could.
"Eventually we got to Bucharest, writing to Phil and Louise [Pavia - another organiser] every 20 minutes to tell them we were safe. Explosions in Ukraine were going off all around us. My kids are so scared that when we went to see a band this week and there were fireworks they ran away and started panicking that it was happening again."
She added: "Before the war started we lived peacefully in our village. The people of Ukraine are peaceful people and we lived well among Russian and Armenian people too.
"I speak fluent Russian and I never felt any problems there until now. We were building our lives, we had a lovely garden, my son was going to dentistry school.
"We were looking forward. Now I speak to my friends there and they are fighting in Mariupol. People in [Russian] occupied territories don’t have access to clean water, food or medication.
"Just 20km from my village, war is raging. A boy in my village, just 23, was buried this week due to fighting Russian forces. They are frightened every day that Russia will announce war on neighbouring countries supporting Ukraine too.
The team in Chepstow balanced efforts trying to get Liliya to the UK with time doing up the bungalow - headed by Phil and Francis who have spent hours almost every day there ever since. On Friday Liliya and her boys walked through the school gates, cheered on by pupils at the school who performed a guard of honour to officially welcome them.
As of May 17, 107,400 Ukrainian visas had been issued out of 128,100 applications. Of the 6.3m refugees to have left Ukraine more than three million are in Poland, while Romania has taken in almost a million and Hungary more than 600,000. Germany said as of May 14 it had taken in more than 700,000 Ukrainian refugees.
Many people like Phil who are sponsors have complained that the system is too slow with unnecessary obstacles causing significant delays. He said helping Liliya had "many twists and turns", but that the journey has seen "unbelievable kindness and generosity" from so many.
