Minor misunderstandings among family members can quickly escalate into full-blown conflicts. People address these problems differently, but you must commend those who choose a peaceful approach over a tense and potentially damaging situation.
That was exactly what this mom did when she grew tired of her husband and teenage child repeatedly leaving their baby gates open. Instead of blowing up and making a big issue, she hatched a hilarious petty revenge plan to send a strong message.
Not only did the author get her point across, but she also found herself thoroughly entertained. Seemingly proud of her little scheme, she shared her story on the Petty Revenge subreddit.
Minor household misunderstandings are typical among family members
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This woman was having a difficult time with her forgetful family and perpetually open baby gates
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She tackled the issue lightheartedly, leaving everyone laughing
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The author provided further updates
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And commended her child for being more “trainable” than her husband
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Family conflicts may have hefty long-term repercussions
The author settled the issue without causing tension, which could’ve profoundly affected their family dynamics. According to health educator Dr. Elizabeth Scott, conflicts can interfere with trust.
The stinging reminders of the rift may also linger. As Dr. Scott points out, this is when people mostly assume the worst instead of giving the benefit of the doubt. Likewise, future references to past conflicts may open old wounds.
“The feelings of pain and mistrust usually linger under the surface and are difficult to resolve,” she wrote in an article for Very Well Mind.
Unresolved issues could continue to boil over during family gatherings, leading to awkward, forgettable, and stressful moments.
“Family is often a source of support but can also be a source of distress,” Dr. Scott wrote.
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Emotional intelligence is critical in solving family conflicts
A quick search on solving family conflicts will lead you to excellent tips like setting boundaries, managing stress, and moving forward. Building emotional intelligence isn’t among the top often-mentioned answers, which Help Guide pointed out.
Having a high EQ allows you to comprehend, manage, and address emotions. Ultimately, it enables you to have a healthier relationship with the people around you.
An article by Harvard University enumerated the usual traits of a person with a high EQ, which included the ability to influence others toward a common goal while remaining calm during stressful situations. Also on the list is handling difficult situations “with tact and diplomacy.”
The description above fits with what the author showed, based on her story. She got everyone to listen without getting angry. She remained calm and patient even after the repeated mishaps caused by the open baby gates.
Readers, what do you think? Do you agree with how the woman handled their household issue?
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The author addressed the commenters’ questions, but most people approved of her actions
Some offered suggestions
