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Jennifer Newton

Kate Middleton and Sophie Wessex's 'naughty' friendship - secret formula and 'Meghan snub'

It's a big day today for one of the Royal Family's much-loved members, Sophie, Countess of Wessex.

That's because today it's her 57th birthday and no doubt her husband Prince Edward and children Lady Louise Windsor and James, Viscount Severn, are making it as special as it can be.

Sophie's big day comes just weeks after the birthday of one of her closest royal relatives, the Duchess of Cambridge.

Despite their 17-year age gap, both women seem to have a sweet and fun bond with the pair chatting away and giggling at events.

Recently, Sophie, who is also said to be extremely close to the Queen, showed her support for Kate by attending her carol concert at Westminster Abbey before Christmas.

Sophie Wessex and Kate Middleton are said to have a close bond (WireImage)

Here we take a look at exactly what the two have in common and how their adorable friendship has blossomed...

Normal upbringings

One thing that Sophie and Kate may have bonded over is the fact they both had relatively normal upbringings.

Sophie grew up in a middle-class family like Kate without any of the trappings of royalty.

Sophie is 17 years older than Kate (Getty Images)
The pair have done rare joint engagements (Getty Images)

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Both women attended school and had experience of holding down regular jobs before marrying into the Firm.

Before Sophie married Edward in 1999, she worked in PR, while before Kate's wedding to Prince William in 2011, she was an accessories buyer at fashion chain Jigsaw.

On marrying their husbands, both women also had to learn to navigate royal life and carry out engagements, with both now being seen as major assets to the Firm.

Welcome to the family

Kate and Sophie together at Wimbledon in 2016 (Getty Images)

As Sophie married into the Royal Family 12 years before Kate, it appears she was happy to show her the ropes of royal life.

And this has been evident on the rare occasions that the two women have carried out engagements together, according to body language expert Judi James.

She told the Express : "Sophie’s formula does appear to have been copied by Kate too as ‒ so far ‒ she has managed to tread the very fine line of creating interest that is positive but not unmanageable.

"Many of the poses of the two women together show Sophie face-checking Kate with quite strong bouts of watchful-looking eye contact to suggest she’s taking a semi-maternal approach.

Sophie and Meghan together at Royal Ascot in 2018 (REX/Shutterstock)

“She also [has] raised eyebrows and what’s called a ‘pinging’ smile that implies she wants to ensure Kate is enjoying herself.

“There is some mirroring when the two women walk together but it’s primarily Sophie projecting the stronger signals of relaxed confidence while Kate smiles happily at her side.”

Meanwhile, it was recently reported that Sophie and Kate were also willing to help out Meghan Markle after she joined the Royal Family and later spoke out about her struggle within the Firm.

But royal journalist Rebecca English wrote in the Daily Mail : "They both, I'm told, 'repeatedly' reached out to Meghan after she first spoke of her unhappiness in 2019.

"However, I am also told that both Kate and Sophie were 'rebuffed'."

'Naughty' friendship

Kate and Sophie at the 2012 Paralympics with Sophie's daughter Lady Louise Windsor (AFP via Getty Images)

However, rather than just supporting each other through the drama and challenges of living in the royal spotlight, Sophie and Kate have also formed a naughty and fun friendship, according to a body language expert.

In one picture of the pair from the London 2012 Paralympics, Sophie can be seen throwing her head back in laughter as Kate giggles from underneath the hood of her coat.

And Judi told The Sun : "Kate looks delighted to have made Sophie laugh like this and the slight nose-wrinkling suggests she thinks she is being rather naughty here."

Another famous photo of the pair shows Sophie almost falling into Kate after she stumbles while climbing into a carriage at Royal Ascot in 2017.

In this instance, Judi added: "The two women meet face-to-face here and Kate’s raised brows and eyes widened in mock shock produce a matching, open-mouthed response from Sophie, showing those strong bonds of shared fun that clearly seem to exist when the two women aren’t out in public."

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