Recently, Jennifer Lopez revealed that Ben Affleck had a powerful message engraved on her emerald engagement ring before proposing for the second time in April 2022. The message read 'not.going.anywhere,' a phrase Affleck used in his emails to reassure Lopez that he was committed to their renewed relationship.
Ironically, despite Affleck's message of commitment, it was Lopez who initiated the divorce proceedings, filing for divorce from Affleck on the anniversary of their second wedding ceremony. Sources suggest that Lopez chose this significant date to assert her independence and strength.
Reports indicate that Lopez's recent public appearance in a glamorous black dress during a shopping trip in West Hollywood was a statement of reclaiming her dignity. Despite signs of trouble in their relationship earlier in the year, the official date of separation was listed as April 26, 2024.
Following their separation, Lopez and Affleck spent the summer living on opposite coasts after putting their marital estate on the market for $60 million. Sources suggest that Lopez felt humiliated and frustrated by the failed reconciliation, especially after publicly declaring Affleck as the love of her life.
While Affleck reportedly delayed filing for divorce to spare Lopez embarrassment, sources indicate that he showed no interest in salvaging their marriage. Lopez, feeling disappointed and sad, realized that Affleck was not committed to making their relationship work and decided to prioritize her own well-being.
