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Jennifer Newton

Inside Prince Harry's relationship with Charles - money row, 'pain' and snubbed invite

Prince Harry's relationship with his father Prince Charles has not always been plain sailing - not least in recent years.

Harry's wife Meghan Markle suggested last week that her husband felt his bond with his father was over following their decision to quit public duties. But despite this - and other criticisms - it has emerged that Charles has extended an open invitation to the couple saying they are are “always welcome” to stay with him. A friend of Charles said: "He hasn’t wavered, despite the attacks, which seem to be coming with increased vigour." But what has caused the fracture in their relationship and are they able to repair it?

Childhood days

Prince Charles with a one-year-old Prince Harry (Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images)

Harry is the second son of Charles and his late ex-wife Princess Diana. Speaking in 1994, Charles told a documentary, he tried to spend as much time as he could with his young sons.

However, royal biographer Penny Junor once claimed that Charles had been a "remote figure".

She told the Daily Beast : "It is a slightly tricky relationship because Charles has always been quite a remote figure, he has always been consumed by work.

"That’s not a product of a lack of love. It’s a product of the fact he is so focused on his work, and the need to make a difference in the world that, like many people who are seeking to make a difference in the world, he has sometimes overlooked friends and loved ones beside him."

Diana's death

Diana with a young Prince William and Prince Harry (Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images)

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As a young boy, Harry saw the breakdown of his parent's marriage, which played out in the full media spotlight.

In 1997 - a year after Charles and Diana's divorce was finalised - Diana died following a horrific car crash in Paris, leaving her two sons grief-stricken.

Both William and Harry were staying at Balmoral with Charles at the time, and it was down to their dad to break the terrible news to them.

In 2017, Harry praised Charles for the way he looked after both him and William in the wake of their tragic mother's death.

In a BBC documentary, Harry said: "One of the hardest things for a parent to have to do is to tell your children that your other parent has died. How you deal with that, I don't know. But, you know, he was there for us.

"He was the one out of two left and he tried to do his best to make sure that we were protected and looked after. But you know, he was going through the same grieving process as well."

Closer than William

Also in 2017, Harry guest-edited The Today programme on BBC Radio 4, where he interviewed Charles - affectionately calling him 'Pa'.

In the interview, Harry revealed how he values his father's opinion saying: "I do end up picking your brains more now than I ever have done."

Speaking earlier this year, royal expert and author Robert Jobson even remarked how Harry had been closer to his father than William.

Wedding woes

The couple's wedding in May 2018 (PA)

In 2016, Harry started dating his now-wife Meghan with the pair tying the knot at St George's Chapel in Windsor in May 2018.

In the lead-up to the wedding, it was revealed that Meghan's father Thomas would not be attending - prompting Charles to step in and walk Meghan part-way down the aisle.

Speaking about the moment, Harry told a 2018 BBC documentary: "I asked him to and I think he knew it was coming, and he immediately said 'yes, of course, I'll do whatever Meghan needs and I'm here to support you.'

"For him, that's a fantastic opportunity to step up and be that support, and you know he's our father so of course he's going to be there for us."

The wedding also took place just weeks before a special Buckingham Palace garden party was held to mark Charles' 70th birthday.

There, Harry made a touching speech and said: "His enthusiasm and energy are truly infectious; it has certainly inspired William and I to get involved in issues we care passionately about and to do whatever we can to make a difference.

"In fact, many of the issues William and I now work on are subjects we were introduced to by our father growing up."

Sandringham summit

However, after just over a year as working royals, Harry and Meghan decided they want to quit the Firm and step down from their roles.

A summit was held at Sandringham between the Queen, Harry, Charles and William to thrash out a deal - and Harry and Meghan eventually settled in California with young son Archie.

It was then that cracks started to appear in the bond between Harry and his father as well as with his brother William.

Oprah fallout

Harry and Meghan during their tell-all interview with Oprah Winfrey (HARPO PRODUCTIONS/AFP via Getty)

In March 2021, both Harry and Meghan sat down for a tell-all chat with Oprah Winfrey, which proved explosive.

During the bombshell interview, Harry accused his dad of cutting him off financially and claimed he had stopped taking his calls.

"My family literally cut me off financially," Harry said in March.

"I've got what my mum left me, and without that, we would not have been able to do this. I think she saw it coming," Harry said, adding that it was the inspiration behind Harry and Meghan seeking to land a Netflix deal.

Harry also said he felt "really let down" by his father, saying: "He knows what pain feels like.

"Of course I will always love him but there's a lot of hurt that's happened and I will continue to make it one of my priorities to try and heal that."

Secret visit and yet another interview

Prince Harry together with his father Prince Charles (Getty Images)

In the weeks after the Oprah interview, Harry saw his father at the funeral of Prince Philip - although a reconciliation was not on the cards.

However, earlier this year father and son were reunited when H arry and Meghan made a secret trip to the UK on their way to the Invictus Games in the Netherlands.

They saw Charles and wife Camilla at Windsor Castle before they then had a meeting with the Queen.

However, just days after the reunion Harry gave another tell-all interview where he made yet more claims about the royals.

He talked about the secret meeting with the Queen, revealing he wanted to make sure she was "protected" and had the "right people around her" - comments that have proved highly controversial.

But when it came to a specific question about if he missed Charles, he refused to answer, quickly changing the subject.

Jubilee and summer snub

Harry and Meghan at the Queen's Platinum Jubilee celebrations (Getty Images)

In June, there was another reuniting of Harry and Charles during the Queen's Platinum Jubilee celebrations.

With Harry and Meghan coming to the UK for the festivities with their children, Charles was able to see grandson Archie and meet his granddaughter Lilibet for the first time.

However, the Sussexes did not hang around in the UK for long and hot-footed it back to California before the celebrations ended.

Today, it emerged Charles has extended an open invitation to Harry and his family for them to stay with him in Scotland - but the invitation was declined.

An insider said: “The Prince of Wales reiterated his invitation for Harry and Meghan, and the whole family if they wished, to come and stay with him this summer while he is at his home on the Balmoral estate.

“He thought it might be a good opportunity for everyone to take stock and relax, but the invitation was declined.”

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