A man who killed his wife of more than 40 years after she had been diagnosed with lung cancer has spoken of her final moments and how their suicide pact gave him strength. Graham Mansfield, 73, was convicted of the manslaughter of his 71-year-old wife Dyanne but has walked free from court.
Mr Mansfield cut his wife's throat in March last year then tried to kill himself. In an interview with the Manchester Evening News, Mr Mansfield said Dyanne had been told she had stage four lung cancer in October 2020, weeks after their 40th wedding anniversary.
When they got home, Mrs Mansfield asked her husband if he would be willing to kill her if things got 'too bad'. He said: "I said I would have to go with her. I said 'I can't live without you Dyanne'. In a funny way it gave me strength. I knew I was dying as well. I could focus on that."
The couple met in their local pub on New Year's Eve in 1974 and were married six years later. They shared interests including walking, gardening and cycling in a loving and happy marriage.
He said: "Dyanne was a wonderful person. She was my whole world. We didn't need anybody else. We just needed one another. We had a wonderful life together."
By March 2021 Mrs Mansfield was in unbearable pain and told her husband 'I've had enough, I can’t take anymore'. Mr Mansfield cancelled the papers, the milk delivery and the window cleaner, emptied the freezer and tidied the house.
Their last night together was spent 'crying and telling each other how much we loved one another'. At 5pm the next day Mrs Mansfield had a glass of red wine, while Mr Mansfield had a can of lager and a whisky and lemonade.
They put their coats on, locked up the house, went to the bottom of the garden where two chairs were arranged next to each other. He asked 'Are you ready?', to which his wife replied 'Yes, I won't make a noise'. He then walked behind the chair and cut her throat with a Stanley knife.
Mr Mansfield said: "It went against every fibre of my body. I ran round to the front of the chair. I said 'What have I done?' I sat next to her, put my arm round her and told I loved her."
Mr Mansfield then tried to take his own life, but passed out before waking up in the kitchen the next morning. He called 999, was arrested and told police everything.
Mrs Mansfield was found in a chair at the bottom of their garden. A note left nearby addressed to police read: "We have decided to take our own lives."
He was charged with murder, which he denied. Mr Justice Goose, told jurors that for Mr Mansfield to be convicted of murder, they had to be sure that he used unlawful violence which caused the death of his wife, and that he intended to kill her.
But the case could be reduced to manslaughter if they believed it was 'more likely than not' that the suicide pact was a joint agreement between the couple, which Mrs Mansfield had voluntarily agreed to and that her husband had made a genuine attempt on his own life.
Jurors took 90 minutes to return the unanimous verdict following a four-day trial. The judge sentenced him to a two-year suspended prison sentence after saying he was 'entirely satisfied' that Mr Mansfield had acted out of 'love' and 'compassion' towards his spouse.
But Mr Mansfield doesn't believe the case should have got to court in the first place. He has called for euthanasia to be legalised in the UK and said if the Covid lockdown hadn't stopped international travel they would have considered going to Dignitas in Switzerland.
Mr Mansfield said: "We have done nothing wrong. We didn't need permission from other people. It was our decision. I killed her with love.
"If someone is terminally ill, if they're in pain, what's wrong with saying I don't want to live any more? [Euthanasia] is a humane and sensible way to do things. The law meant we had to resort to this barbaric method."
