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Arielle Domb

How Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez became Hollywood's hottest couple — and her other famous exes

“Forever begins now,” Serena Gomez wrote on Instagram - (Instagram/Selena Gomez)

Fans have been gushing over Serena Gomez’s engagement to Benny Blanco since the couple announced their plans for marriage in December. The couple began dating in 2023, after they began collaborating on an album together.

“Forever begins now,” Gomez wrote on an Instagram post, featuring a photo of the giant marquise-shaped diamond ring.

Since their engagement, they have endured a strong start to 2025.

The pair, who are quickly becoming one of Hollywood’s favourite couples, dazzled together at the Golden Globes in January, and in March, they set hearts racing again as they were seen together at the Oscars - with Gomez stealing the show with her bejewelled golden dress.

But the couple were not done there. In late March, the pair released their album I Said I Love You First, which received generally positive reviews

However, as with any relationship, it is not always smooth sailing.

Justin Bieber, Gomez’ ex, has in the headlines for all the wrong reasons recently, including cryptic social media posts mocking ‘girls on social media who get engaged’, we look back over Gomez and Blanco’s trajectory as well as her star-studded dating history.

How did they meet and when did they start dating?

The seeds were sown for Gomez and Blanco’s relationship a decade ago, when the pair collaborated on Gomez’s album Revival in 2015.

Things remained friendly until 2023, when Gomez confirmed that the two were dating. "He is my absolute everything in my heart," she commented on a photo of the couple shared by a fan account on Instagram.

When did Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber date and what happened between them?

Childhood sweethearts Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber are believed to have first broken up in November 2012 due to their busy work schedules.

In September 2014, they got back together, but were believed to have broken up again the following month. The reason for the split is not known, however speculation arose around infidelity on the Baby hitmaker’s part after photos emerged of Bieber and Kendall Jenner in Paris.

The couple are believed to have reunited again in October 2017, before breaking up again in March 2018.

"Selena started seeing the bigger picture when it came to their relationship," a source told Us Weekly. "Like what was more important: her general happiness and her family and friends approval, or her being together with Justin, where no one really supported their relationship.”

Has Justin Bieber said anything about Gomez’s and Blanco’s relationship?

Bieber, who is now married to Hailey Bieber (née Baldwin), has not publicly acknowledged Gomez and Blanco’s engagement, at least not directly.

But fans have speculated that the singer is “shading” Gomez on his Instagram account.

On April 2, Bieber shared a meme on his Instagram story featuring a scene from The Lord of the Rings in which Gollum holds up a ring close to his face. The text reads: “Girls on social media when they get engaged.”

Social media sleuths quickly began pondering whether the post was indirectly addressing Gomez’s engagement.

Who else has Selena Gomez dated?

Nick Jonas

Nick Jonas (Getty)

Gomez has a star-studded relationship history, beginning with musician Nick Jonas in 2008. She even starred in the music video for Jonas Brothers’ single Burnin’ Up.

However, there were also rumours that Jonas was dating Miley Cyrus during this time. In 2016, Gomez told W magazine that the love triangle did not hinder her relationship with Cyrus.

“We never feuded. We both liked the same guy when we were 16. It was just a Hilary DuffLindsay Lohan thing: ‘Oh, my God, we like the same boy!’”

Taylor Lautner

Taylor Lautner (PA)

In 2009, Gomez briefly dated actor Taylor Lautner (best known for his role as Jacob in Twilight). According to Gomez, the pair split because of the intensity of the attention they were receiving.

“We would go out to lunch and dinner, but I knew he had paparazzi following him, and I had paparazzi following me,” she told Seventeen. “So we literally just wanted to hang out, go bowling and stuff, and it went a little too far, I think. People were getting a little crazy about us.”

Orlando Bloom

Orlando Bloom (PA Archive)

Gomez and Bieber broke up (for the second time) in 2014, during which time Gomez is rumoured to have dated the actor Orlando Bloom (they have both denied this).

That year, Bloom punched Bieber in Ibiza, leading to more speculation about his potential link to Gomez.

Rumours were sparked again in 2016 when photos emerged of Gomez and Bloom seemingly cuddled up in a booh in Las Vegas (Bloom was reportedly dating his now wife Katy Perry during this time).

Zedd

In January 2015, Gomez posted a (now-deleted) photo on social media in the studio with German DJ and record producer Zedd.

A month later, Zedd posted a picture of Gomez in bed. He explained on Los Angeles 97.1 AMP Radio interview that he’d met Gomez on a bathroom break at his label’s studio. "A week later, we start working on a song,” he explained. “All because I had to pee."

However, Zedd later confessed that he had “no idea” how much dating Gomez would change his life. “Reporters were calling my parents. People were hacking my friends’ phones. I was pissed,” he told Billboard.

Niall Horan

Niall Horan (Getty Images)

Fan theories about Gomez’s alleged relationship with One Direction star Niall Horan began in 2015, when the pair were spotted together at Jenna Dewan-Tatum’s 35th birthday party in Los Angeles. The pair were observed together on a number of occasions, even posting about each other on their Instagram stories.

However, rumours have never been confirmed. "We're friends," Horan said on Poppbuz, “We have the same group of friends... we hang out all the time.”

Samuel Krost

Gomez briefly dated Samuel Krost, a friend of Gigi Hadid’s in early 2016. The pair remained friends, with Gomez seen attending Krost’s wedding in 2023.

Charlie Puth

Charlie Puth (Matt Crossick/PA) (PA Archive)

In March 2016, rumours began swirling that Gomez was dating singer Charlie Puth, which the pair both denied.

But years later, Puth described his relationship with Gomez as “very short-lived, very small, but very impactful.”

He confessed that “it really messed me up. I’m trying to put this the best way possible: It wasn’t like I was the only person on her mind. And I think I knew that going in—what I was getting myself into.”

The Weeknd

The Weeknd (Getty Images)

In 2017, Gomez was seen with musical artist The Weeknd (Abel Tesfaye) in Santa Monica, in Italy and at Coachella.

The pair reportedly dated for a few months after meeting at a Victoria’s Secret fashion show in 2015.

Chris Evans

Chris Evans describes Marvel return in Deadpool & Wolverine as ‘dream come true’ (Doug Peters/PA) (PA Wire)

Rumours that Gomez was dating Captain America actor Chris Evans began in October 2016, when Evans followed Gomez on Instagram.

Fans went wild when a TikTok circulated in which Gomez was wearing a sweater that looked familiar to one Evans wore in Knives Out. However, the rumours were never been confirmed.

Andrea Lervolino

Gomez was rumoured to be dating the Italian-Canadian film producer and entrepeneur Andrea Lervolino, after meeting him on set of the 2016 film The Dubious Battle.

Lervolino was seen at Gomez’s 27th birthday party. Then, in the summer of 2022, photos circulated of the pair together on a yacht in Italy.

Drew Taggart

Drew Taggart (Grant Halverson/Getty)

Gomez reportedly went on a few dates with the Chainsmokers singer Drew Taggart in 2023. They were spotted in clubs and at a bowling alley.

Zayn Malik

Zayn Malik (Ian West/PA) (PA Archive)

Rumours that Gomez was seeing another one direction star, Zayn Malik, were stirred in March 2023, when a TikToker claimed they’d seen the two kissing in New York City.

In June, however, the two unfollowed each other on Instagram, according to ELLE.

Benny Blanco

Gomez announced her engagement to Blanco in December 2024 (Instagram/Selena Gomez)

Gomez and Blanco began dating in June 2023 and made it Instagram official six months later. In December 2024, the couple announced their engagement.

Who else has Benny Balco dated?

Elsie Hewitt

Before starting a relationship with Gomez, Balco dated the London-born model Elsie Hewitt from 2019 to 2020 . The two met on set of his and Juice WRLD’s music video for the track Graduation.

The reason for their breakup remains unknown. Hewitt went on to date Pete Davidson.

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