The news of the death of American artist Gene Hackman, legendary actor and winner of two Oscars, and his wife, pianist Betsy Arakawa, has shocked his fans and the world of cinema.
Both were found dead in their home in Santa Fe, New Mexico, on February 26, 2025, along with their dog. With sadness, many remember not only Hackman's distinguished career but also the solid and discreet relationship he maintained with Arakawa for more than three decades.
The love story between Hackman and Arakawa began fortuitously in the mid-1980s. Arakawa, born in Hawaii on December 1, 1961, moved to California to pursue her passion for classical music.
To finance her studies as a pianist, she worked part-time at a gym in Los Angeles. It was at this establishment that their paths crossed for the first time. Hackman, who frequented the gym, was captivated by the young musician, despite the 32-year age difference that separated them. This difference generated comments at the time, but for the couple, it never represented an obstacle in their relationship.
A relationship that defied conventions
In 1984, Hackman and Arakawa began dating. At the time, the actor was still married to his first wife, Faye Maltese, whom he married in 1956 and had three children with: Christopher Allen, Elizabeth Jean and Leslie Anne. Hackman and Maltese's marriage was difficult, and they eventually divorced in 1986 after 30 years together.
Hackman always stressed that her relationship with Arakawa was not the cause of her divorce but that their marriage had already deteriorated over time. In an interview, he stated, "We just drifted apart. We lost sight of each other. When you work in this business, marriage requires a lot of work and love."
After making their relationship official, the couple decided to get away from the hustle and bustle of Hollywood. In 1990, they moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico, seeking a quieter, more private life. In 1991, they tied the knot in an intimate ceremony. Although they did not have children together, Arakawa took on the role of stepmother to Hackman's three children, establishing a close relationship with them.
The couple designed and built a home in Santa Fe that reflected their love of art and culture, combining Southwestern architectural styles with Spanish Colonial and Baroque influences. This residence was featured in a 1990 issue of Architectural Digest , showcasing their dedication to creating a welcoming and aesthetically pleasing home.
Unconditional support in the professional transition
In the late 1990s, Hackman began to consider retiring from acting. In 2004, after a prolific film career, he decided to step away from the stage.
Arakawa was a key pillar during this transition, supporting him in his decision and encouraging him to explore new creative facets. Hackman turned to writing, publishing several novels, including 'Wake of the Perdido Star' in 1999, co-written with underwater archaeologist Daniel Lenihan. Arakawa not only supported his foray into literature, but also collaborated in the research and development of his works, establishing herself as his partner in all aspects of his life.
Despite Hackman's fame, the couple kept a low profile, avoiding the spotlight and unnecessary public appearances.
Their last joint appearance at a high-profile event was at the 60th Golden Globes in 2003. They opted for a simple life in Santa Fe, enjoying everyday activities such as walks, reading and enjoying nature. Arakawa, described as an "extremely private" person, stayed away from social media and rarely gave interviews, preserving the privacy of her family life.
