In a recent interview with PEOPLE, Eldridge Toney opened up about his ongoing relationship with Anna 'Chickadee' Cardwell's daughters following her tragic passing in December. Toney shared his thoughts on the first few months since Cardwell's death, reflecting on his role in the lives of her daughters. The interview shed light on the bond Toney has formed with the girls and his dedication to honoring Cardwell's dying wish.
Cardwell and Toney began dating in 2017 after her divorce from Michael Cardwell, with whom she shares an 11-year-old daughter named Kylee Madison. Cardwell is also a mother to 8-year-old Kaitlyn Elizabeth. Despite not having custody of the girls, Toney has made it a priority to stay connected with them.
When asked about spending time with the girls, Toney replied, 'Yes, yes I have been seeing them as much as I can. I've been staying really persistent on seeing both of them.' He explained that it is easier to see Kaitlyn since she lives nearby, and he is familiar with her schedule. However, seeing Kylee is more challenging due to the distance. Nevertheless, Toney makes it a point to spend time with her whenever possible.
Despite not being their biological father, Toney feels a strong sense of responsibility towards Cardwell's daughters. He disclosed that he had conversations with both Cardwell and Michael Cardwell, where they mutually agreed that Toney would be another father figure in the girls' lives. Toney remains committed to the promise he made to Anna and believes that caring for the girls is a way to keep her memory alive.
Toney shared a heartwarming anecdote about Kylee's hair, revealing how it had always been short during Cardwell's lifetime. He explained how seeing her hair gradually grow long brought back fond memories of Cardwell's joyous reaction. These small moments serve as a reminder of Cardwell's presence and the love she had for her daughters.
Shortly before Cardwell's passing, Toney had a heartfelt conversation with her. He shared, 'The day before she passed, we had our talk and said our goodbyes. Her dying wish was for her girls to grow up knowing who their mother was. And I promised I would do right by the girls always. I will spend my life doing right by Anna and the girls.' These words emphasize Toney's commitment to fulfilling Cardwell's last wish and creating a strong foundation for her daughters.
Toney and Cardwell decided to marry on March 4, just after her diagnosis, knowing that time was limited. Sadly, Cardwell passed away on December 9, 2023, at the age of 29. Despite the immense grief, Toney remains unwavering in his dedication to Anna's daughters. He considers them his own and will ensure that they remember their mother.
The story of Anna 'Chickadee' Cardwell's death is a tragic one, yet it serves as a testament to the enduring love and dedication of Eldridge Toney. His commitment to caring for Cardwell's daughters and honoring her memory is truly heartwarming. Toney's relationship with the girls provides them with stability and a continued connection to their beloved mother. While nothing can replace her, having Toney by their side ensures that Anna's legacy lives on through her daughters.
