Needs and priorities change over time, and one life change that is often the biggest is starting a family.
Many parents have to make important decisions all the time, with Ailsa and Paul Delaney being no different. The couple bought their three-bed semi-detached home after their first child was born but when they later had twins they realised they could benefit from additional space.
After initially putting the house on the market, the couple decided they would rather stay put instead of moving and embarked on a huge Grand Design style extension and renovation project that transformed their outgrown house into their forever home.
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Mum-of-three Ailsa has lived in Urmston all her life and bought her first house with Paul in the area back in 2002. The 42-year-old said how lucky the couple was to get a 100% mortgage on a two-bed terrace house which cost them £72,000. After they had their first child, now 14, they decided it was time to move into a home more suitable for a growing family.
The executive assistant told the Manchester Evening News: "We decided to move after our firstborn. We didn't have a garden or parking in our old house so that's what made us want to move."
She continued: "We wanted to stay in Urmston and be in the catchment area of the good schools. Ideally, I wanted to find a semi-detached 1920s or 30s build with a hallway because our terrace didn't have a hallway.
"We put our house on the market in 2008 and then the recession hit which was a nightmare. We had to drop the price we were selling it for by quite a lot and it took us a year to sell it, but it worked in our favour."
House prices plummeted by 15.9% in 2008 according to Nationwide which proved to be a big advantage for Ailsa and Paul when they searched for their next home.
Ailsa explained: "This three-bed semi-detached house came on the market around the same time that we put ours up and it was too expensive, but by the time we got round to selling ours because of the financial crisis the price of it had dropped significantly"
She said: "It was actually the only house which was the style that I wanted in the area that I wanted with a big garden and the potential to extend in the future. We viewed two houses on the same day but my husband preferred the other one because it was a bit more modern but much smaller, but I had my heart set on this one."
The couple managed to secure the property for £162,000 back in 2009 but there was a lot of work to be done.
She continued: "It was an old lady's house who had unfortunately died. She kept it well but it was dated so everything needed updating and decorating. It was painted magnolia, it was full of swirly patterned carpet and psychedelic-style wallpaper.
"It needed a full new kitchen and the bathroom had a heater on the wall which was quite scary so we took that off quickly."
But as their family grew, with the addition of their twins who are now 11, the couple realised they may have to move again.
"Just before the pandemic began we put the house on the market because we had three children and decided we wanted a four-bedroom house to have more space," Ailsa said.
"We put it on the market and then lockdown happened so we took it off. But then me and my husband rethought and realised we loved living here, we like our neighbours and the location - we'd just outgrown the house.
"So we then decided we wanted to extend our house, but we wanted to do something professional and special, so we got an architect round to help us."
The couple had their first meeting with the architect in early 2020 to get ideas for how they could expand their existing space.
"I wanted something different and to make the most out of the garden. The garden is to the side of the house but with how it was previously there were no windows overlooking the garden, so you couldn't see the garden at all unless you went out into it.
"We wanted a big open plan kitchen, dining and living area and for it to have lots of light. We also wanted a downstairs toilet and utility room.
"So that we could have an additional bedroom we decided on a loft conversion. We wanted a master bedroom with a hotel suite type feel with a dressing area and en-suite."
Planning permission was approved in January 2021 but due to coronavirus restrictions, the process took much longer than anticipated.
"We started asking builders for quotes in around April 2021 and the building started in October 2021. We had supply chain issues which set us back quite a bit," Ailsa said.
"The steel frames we were relying on took an extra month to be delivered and we couldn't do anything until we got them. The outside of the house is Siberian larch and with the war in Ukraine, we had a delay getting that material and the prices went up on everything too.
"We also had to move out due to the work. Me and my husband were split up due to space so he lived with his sister and me and the kids stayed with my mum and dad. That was supposed to be a couple of weeks and it ended up being for four months.
"When we moved back in it took us around six months to renovate the new space."
All in all, it took around a year and a half from the initial meeting with the architect for the extension, roof conversion and renovation to be fully complete - and the couple ended up going well over budget.
"Initially when we spoke to the architect we said £90,000 all in including the kitchen and everything. The quote from the builder was just over £100,000, then we had to get the kitchen on top of that," Ailsa admitted.
"In the end, the build came to about £140,000 and then we had all the interiors done on top of that so we had to remortgage quite quickly. But now we've come through it we absolutely love it and it's been so worth it.
"The extension is not something I've seen before. The whole corner of the old house has been knocked off completely and it's built out at a 45-degree angle in an L shape. All the angles inside the room are really interesting.
"From the front, our house is quite unassuming, because of the angle of the extension you can't really see it, so at a first glance, it just looks like every other house on the street. It's only when you come in you see it and it's quite surprising how big it is."
Not only do the family have a beautiful home, but they've managed to add value to it too.
"One of my husband's friends is an estate agent so we asked him if he'd mind coming round and valuing it. We had it valued just before the pandemic when we were initially looking to sell it and it was around £310,000, but he said that it would be at least £500,000 now."
Describing the layout of her home now, Ailsa explained: "You come through the arched porch and there's the hallway with the stairs to the side.
"There's the living room on the right, which is more of a cosy winter living room, and then down the hallway through to the back is where we've had the extension.
"The extension is an L shape so there's the kitchen area, which is a nordic bluey green colour with a patterned floor and then to the left is the dining area with bifold doors leading out into the garden, and then to the right is the living area.
"The new living area is my favourite. I love being outside but I get cold. So it's nice to sit there because you're looking out onto the garden and you feel like you are outside but there's a roof and it's warm."
Ailsa added: "Upstairs on the first floor we've got the family bathroom and then three bedrooms, two doubles and one single. Then up in the loft conversion is the master bedroom with the bed area, a walk-in wardrobe area and an en-suite. My husband also has an office area up there.
"We weren't going to do the garden but then we saw the state of it after the building work so it has been done. We asked the builders if they would do a patio area for us, level it and lay some artificial grass for the boys to play football and it looks really nice."
During lockdown, Ailsa did an online interior course on colour psychology, which inspired the interior style of her home.
"My interior style has definitely evolved over time. I think now I'd describe it as Scandinavian style with some modern features. I like clean and simple with pops of colour and a lot of contrast," she said.
"Colour psychology is all about how different colours make you feel and how certain personalities are attracted to certain colour palettes, and that helped me to narrow down the colour palette that I wanted. I think our house has a spring look and feel to it.
"One bit of advice I'd give when renovating is to think about how you want to feel in a room rather than starting with what you want it to look like, think 'do I want to feel warm and cosy' or 'do I want to feel excited' and then work choose your colour schemes from there."
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