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Maryam Zakir-Hussein

Child hunger: ‘I pretended to be picky so my mum wasn’t embarrassed about food, free school meals made me’

Neely Mozawala

(Picture: ES/User)

Neely Mozawala grew up in a poor household in Hillingdon.

The 30-year-old podiatrist was motivated to work hard in school so she could take care of her family and make sure no one would go through the same struggle.

Now also the founder of No Hungry Staff — a campaign to provide hot and affordable food to NHS workers — Neely said receiving free lunches paved the way for her success.

Here, in our third #FreeMadeMe interview, Neely tells her story to Maryam Zakir-Hussein

My mum was a single parent and she worked three jobs to look after me. I was anxious watching her be stressed and she was stressed every day. She was always worried about how she was going to put food on the table.

I felt guilty that my mum had to worry about feeding me. I used to save up pocket money from relatives during Eid and I would put pocket money in my mum’s purse thinking she wouldn’t notice, just so she had enough food for us. It was a very difficult time.

Having that free meal at school allowed me some respite. I could forget about all the troubles I was having at home with food and just be a child. I could just be a normal child, the same as everyone else — and my mum had one less thing to worry about.

Neely grew up in a poor household in Hillingdon (ES/User)

When I would go food shopping with my mum, I would pretend not to like things that most kids wanted because it was too expensive.

But at school, I didn’t have to limit myself. The last thing you want as a child is to feel different. I was able to eat with my friends and have the same food as them. I didn’t have to skip meals.

With free school meals, students can focus on their studies and as a result, this will lead to a return in investment for the country. I am where I am today because of the help I got from school and free school meals.

It allowed me to be a child. I didn’t have to worry about these things when I was at school.

I am really passionate about social mobility and how everyone should be given equal opportunity in life.

Food is instrumental to mental health for children and their parents and for the relationships in their lives. At that age, you don’t want to feel you can’t achieve certain things.

At that age, I felt I could achieve anything. I don’t want people to lose that and feel hopeless. This is how people get into crime and anti-social behaviour.

I can’t express enough just how grateful I was to have free school meals as a child. It made me feel normal.

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