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Blind date: ‘My friends would be weirded out by how similar the two of us are’

Dora (left) Jago

Dora on Jago

Dora.

What were you hoping for?
To meet my soulmate, of course. Failing that, a funny story to tell.

First impressions?
I was early and Jago was there already so my first impression was that he was prompt. He seemed friendly, if nervous.

What did you talk about?
So much! We both care a lot about what we do so there was work chat. Also films, music and favourite European countries. And our shared suppressed dream of doing standup comedy.

Most awkward moment?
Two desserts arrived and we both swore we’d ordered the chocolate semifreddo, not the dessert wine and biscotti. We politely shared both.

Good table manners?
Yes, definitely. We both ordered pasta (not the most graceful thing to eat on a date) but I felt very at ease.

Best thing about Jago?
He can hold an interesting conversation which isn’t just about himself.

Would you introduce Jago to your friends?
They would definitely get along – and be weirded out by how similar we are.

Describe Jago in three words.
Smart, sweet, funny.

What do you think Jago made of you?
Hopefully that I was interesting, and not a terrible person for giving up my vegetarianism.

Did you go on somewhere?
To a very nice pub for a pint.

And … did you kiss?
No.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
Maybe more of a romantic spark but we definitely connected so I’m not ruling anything out.

Marks out of 10?
8.

Would you meet again?
We’ve exchanged numbers and a second date is in the works.

Jago and Dora on their date.
Jago and Dora on their date Photograph: -

Jago on Dora

Jago.

What were you hoping for?
A pleasant evening involving interesting conversation.

First impressions?
I was shocked to see how much we had in common, and her fantastic smile.

What did you talk about?
Everything from art and English comedy to the Labour party.

Most awkward moment?
Me not remembering any of the bands playing at the festival I’m going to in the summer.

Good table manners?
Yes, she handled herself very well, whereas I spilt ice-cream on the table.

Best thing about Dora?
Her passion for east London.

Would you introduce Dora to your friends?
Certainly, though she may want to keep her opinions on The Office to herself.

Describe Dora in three words.
Intriguing, funny, beautiful.

What do you think Dora made of you?
I’m not entirely sure. Probably vaguely shocked to find someone as passionate about English brutalism as she is.

Did you go on somewhere?
Yes, a lively pub for chat about French cinema, Edward Hopper and family.

And … did you kiss?
No. But I felt we could have.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
I’d have ordered a coconut margarita, not the cherry pomegranate mojito.

Marks out of 10?
10.

Would you meet again?
Yes, we are discussing which French film we should go and see together.

Jago and Dora ate at Ida, London W1. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com

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