Monique on Ian
What were you hoping for?
To find a nice connection with someone like-minded and with a romantic touch – it is a date after all!
First impressions?
We were both relieved to find out we were not matched with our colleagues with the same names.
What did you talk about?
Karneval season in Germany. How difficult it is to learn German. Over-tourism spoiling beautiful places. The challenges of ending difficult relationships. And, of course, Trump.
Most awkward moment?
We arrived at the same time and I recognised him when he asked for a reservation under the Guardian … which was kind of cute, actually.
Good table manners?
Impeccable.
Best thing about Ian?
He complimented me, which was very special. He also walked me to my car at the end of the evening. Unfortunately, I had parked very close by.
Would you introduce Ian to your friends?
To some of them for sure, they would get along.
Describe Ian in three words.
Sweet, charming and easygoing.
What do you think Ian made of you?
That I have good taste in wine, I hope.
Did you go on somewhere?
It was already late, but had it been a Friday I would have proposed it.
And … did you kiss?
No, but a nice warm hug. I don’t normally kiss on a first date.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
To have met on a weekend.
Marks out of 10?
9.
Would you meet again?
We are planning on a hike with my dog soon.
Ian on Monique
What were you hoping for?
Great food and company (also that I wouldn’t already know her because Cologne can feel like a village).
First impressions?
Wow! She’s lovely and radiant, albeit slightly nervous, like I was.
What did you talk about?
Places we have lived. Hiking. Italian food and wine – she knows her stuff, but then she is Italian.
Most awkward moment?
None from her, but I was a bit clumsy in the cutlery department.
Good table manners?
Very elegant. I eat with my fork in my right hand, so she probably thought I was unsophisticated – which I am.
Best thing about Monique?
Very easy to talk with and good fun.
Would you introduce Monique to your friends?
Of course, but I’d have to send some of them on a training course first.
Describe Monique in three words.
Sophisticated, beautiful and fascinating.
What do you think she made of you?
I don’t know – maybe that I was all right? Who knows?
Did you go on somewhere?
The usual answer: it was a school night.
And … did you kiss?
A hug and a peck on the cheek.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
That the restaurant could have stayed open until 5am.
Marks out of 10?
8 (although I’m hedging my bets here).
Would you meet again?
We are going hiking soon, hopefully.
Monique and Ian ate at Ox Royal in Cologne. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com
