Ever heard of being pregnant without a baby? Sounds wild, right? Well, imagine thinking you’re about to become an honorary auntie, only to find out there’s a whole lot of mystery behind that baby bump, or lack thereof.
When it comes to friendships, sometimes reality gets stranger than fiction, and one Redditor found herself smack dab in the middle of a similar situation. One minute she’s sharing snacks and secrets with her best friend of 30 years, and the next, she’s wondering if her bestie’s life has taken a detour into some sort of reality show, where baby bumps mysteriously disappear.
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Pregnant woman suspicious of her also pregnant best friend after her baby bump doesn’t show, even though she claims to be 9 months pregnant
The two women have been friends for 30 years and know everything about each other, so being pregnant together was supposed to be something they shared
The woman contacted the friend’s mom, who had no idea about any pregnancy, which made her even more suspicious
The woman suspects her best friend is not really pregnant, as she claims to be, and has tried to talk to her about it but she refused and cut contact with her
The original poster (we’ll call her Tia) is a 36-year-old mom, juggling one little one and cooking up baby number two. Tia and her best friend “Mara” have been tighter than skinny jeans for three decades, which, in friendship years, is practically a lifetime.
These two are so close they could finish each other’s sentences—or sandwiches, for that matter. But then, out of nowhere, Mara dropped the bombshell that she was pregnant with baby number three. This was a bit of a shocker, considering she hasn’t been in a relationship since her husband hit the road over a year ago. Hmm, curious, but hey, life has a funny way of surprising us, right?
Fast forward a few months, and things start getting a little… off. Mara’s supposedly nine months along, yet there’s not a baby bump in sight. To top it off, she’s been as distant and frosty as a glacier, even with her bestie. Something’s fishy, but what’s the catch?
You’d think being pregnant together would have these two even closer—swapping crazy cravings, griping about swollen ankles, and all that pregnancy jazz. But nope! When Tia announced her pregnancy to Mara, she got a reaction chillier than a frozen margarita. And things just got weirder from there, with Mara dodging chats like she’s avoiding a tax collector, and generally acting like Tia suddenly caught the plague.
Now, if there’s one unspoken rule after 30 years of friendship, it’s this: you don’t ghost your bestie when something’s clearly up. So, after trying, and failing, to break through Mara’s icy exterior, Tia did the next best thing and called Mara’s mom.
And guess what? Mara’s mom had zero clue about this so-called pregnancy. Big red flag, anyone? If there’s one person Mara would spill the beans to first, it’s her mom. So now, Tia’s left wondering if this whole pregnancy was ever real or if something heartbreaking happened early on. Either way, this friendship is teetering on the edge, and Mara seems desperate to patch things up.
Friendships, like any other relationship, have their roller coaster moments. But is it even possible to mend a broken friendship? Short answer: totally. Long answer? Still yes, but with a few caveats. It really comes down to what caused the fallout in the first place.
The secret sauce to repairing things? A hefty dose of empathy, a truckload of understanding, and a sprinkle of non-judgment—zero judgment would be ideal, but let’s be real. Therapists say the magic formula for mending a broken bond is honest communication. So, sit down with your friend, listen up, and try to see the world through each other’s eyes.
You’ve cleared the air—great! Now comes the fun part: setting boundaries and making sure you don’t tumble back into the same old mess. Sure, patching things up is vital, but let’s not forget about numero uno—your mental health.
If, after all the hand-holding and heart-to-hearts, the friendship still feels like it’s walking on eggshells, it might be time to say “goodbye” with love, respect, and maybe a sassy little wave. Remember, repairing a friendship isn’t just about fixing the cracks – it’s about watering the plant, so it blooms even brighter. However, sometimes, it’s just time to let go of the friendship and move on.
Now, let’s talk about Mara. Clearly, she’s got a lot on her plate, whether it’s a heartbreak she can’t voice or some other emotional turmoil. What she really needs is to know she’s not going through this alone. Tia’s message of unconditional support? Gold star for effort! But if that doesn’t crack the shell, sometimes you’ve just got to give it time, and be ready when she’s finally up for a chat.
Friendship is like a soap opera—messy, dramatic, and full of twists. But when it’s genuine, it’s worth sticking around for the next episode. Whether this story wraps up with a tearful reunion or leaves us hanging with even more questions, one thing’s certain: when you’ve got a bond as strong as this, it’s never truly over.
So, what’s your take on this story? What do you think is really going on with the OP’s bestie? Drop your theories in the comments.
Netizens suspect the friend might be going through some rough times, or she probably lost the baby early on
