As we grow and develop, our perspectives and opinions tend to change, often making us view some things completely differently than we used to; and that applies to everything, from favorite pasta to reading books, and beyond.
One common thing that people tend to view differently as children is people themselves. When you’re a kid, a 20-something-year-old might seem like they know what they’re doing, when you’re a teen, a 35-year-old might look old, and when you’re a freshman in high school, seniors might appear to be so much cooler than they often are.
Members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community discussed views similar to the latter, after one user asked them what was something that seems cool in the eyes of most high schoolers but is actually cringe. Fellow redditors came up with many answers, including “high schoolers” themselves, so scroll down to find them and see what other things people have grown out of or into as they closed the awkward chapter of the high school years.
Discussing sex loudly with the purpose of having random strangers hear it as if that somehow is a sign of maturity.Driving like an idiot/ having a loud car.Being loud and obnoxious everywhere they go. Like dude no one thinks you’re or your friends are cool over there yelling penis and moaning cause you think it’s funny.Being rude to teachers. Every person who I know who was rebellious in school cringes hard when they think about the s**t they said to teachers.Vaping.Teens who think they know about anything in this world. I know it's a phase we all went through but it's very cringe listening to a kid lecture you on stuff theve never stopped to think about or arnt even capible of thinking about.Calling Millenials/any older generation cringe. They're also going to get old and seem cringe to the kids one day. It's the cycle of life.Worrying what other people think. The concept of “cool” in the first place.
My brother and I (in our early 30s) were watching a group of teenagers trying so hard to put on this cool, unemotional facade at Disneyland while everyone else around them just enjoyed themselves and we were laughing to ourselves that teenagers are so afraid of displaying emotion or passion and nobody else cares. But we all went through it, and we all reach the realization that it’s more fun to just enjoy ourselves.Tiktok."It's just a prank bro" no, you're being an a*****e.I wouldn’t say that this applies to the majority, but it does apply to a pretty decent amount at my school: saying slurs and barking at people they find weird (they really think it’s peak comedy).Gossip at someone else’s expense.Blasting loud music in busses and public places.Telling people how mature you are.Making fun of people. Like you're not funny, you're annoying and childish.Being d***s to the teacher who just tries to do his\her job.Pretending to have some type of disorder, like that makes them special. Like some how everyone has multiple personalities now, one of the rarest disorders of it's kind and everyone and their cousin suffers from it.Saying 'hashtag' in a spoken sentence, and not ironically.Binge drinking. It's fairly prevalent and accepted within a lot of social circles when you’re in your 20s. You know, those nights out with your buddies when you pre-game, go to the bar and order a few rounds of shots, and let the night take you where the alcohol fuel leads. This feels progressively out of place as you move into your 30s and beyond.Doing things to gain other peoples approval..
Seriously, when you grow up and stop giving a f**k about other peoples opinions, life is so much better.Filming instead of helping.Being 'edgy' and 'offensive' just for the sake of it.
Yeah, we get it. You think that mocking dead people or posting racist/sexist stuff on social media makes you a tough edgelord not to be f****d with. No, it just makes you look like a complete tryhard.Bullying. For example, that thing where they comment "oh" on peoples posts and then claim to "just be saying oh." Everyone knows it's not innocent, it's done with the purpose of making the poster feel insecure or dumb. Just things that can be played off as small, but that they know will have a bigger impact.
Does anyone know what Im talking about? I really dont know how to explain this.The lifestyle of being "young and reckless".
Having an addiction to d***s is not cool.
Being in codependent relationships is not cool.
Having sex in bathroom stalls and on a couch stored behind the theater stage is not cool.
Its just gross.
Skipping class is not cool.
I don't even know why people skipped classes at my high school. There was literally nothing to do but loiter in a bathroom.
Just enjoy your time not paying bills and be as self-centered for as long as you can.Older you get the more you realize the one truly cool thing is the air conditioner.“I’m not like other girls”.Flipping off the camera when you get your picture taken.Sleep deprivation. I loved pulling all nighters as a teen and young adult. Now, they just give me migraines and make the entire subsequent day hell.Calling themselves an Alpha male or Redpill and Calling random people npcs.Using mature language to sound smart. Anyone can string together a bunch of big words, doesn’t make you intelligent.Calling things 'cringe'.Using slang terms like “the fuzz” with reference to police or “bread” for money. Also, wearing bell-bottomed trousers and beads. (Note, I’ve been away from the high school scene for a while, so take this with a grain of salt, as it may be somewhat dated).Bragging about how much weed you smoke or how much you drink.Hickeys or so I've been told.
I actually have no issue with them just so long as they're hidden.Being popular for the wrong reasons. As soon as you graduate that s**t starts over. Better not to rely on being popular and prepare.Disrespecting other people for no reason.Talking back to teachers and laughing in their faces, bullying others, smoking and drinking and then bragging about it. Acting "alter" when they are just following the trend and not really belong there.Bailing on plans last minute. If you don’t want to do something, just say so.Adults who hang out with them.Moaning in the middle of the class.The cringe culture. Just do whatever the f**k you want who cares.Starting fights for no reason (at least in my school anyways).That one like, tikok haircut that guys get where they have like, no hair on the sides and then too much hair on top. No shade it's just douchey.TikTok b******t.Could say quite a few, but the best is probably - Not caring.
Being genuine even to the point of seeming uncool is an amazing personality trait in adulthood that some don’t get back until they are parents.Crying on TikTok, or any kind of dancing on TikTok to something completely inappropriate, like a funeral or someone in a hospital bed fighting for their life.Putting people down
You best stop doing that s**t real quick cause it won;t score you points in college.Insult humor as the primary way of interacting with your friends.The concept of "cool".Most high schoolers.Civics with loud mufflers.Pretty much the whole persona they play to fit in.
You'll eventually grow out of it. The question is just when.Guys who "get around" with lots of girls.Yelling “Let’s gooooooooooooooooo!”.Sleeping eight people to a hotel room to save money.Dating older guys.
