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Kelsey Chapman

19 sexiest gifts for surprising your partner this holiday season

Holiday gift shopping can be a tedious chore to complete, so take the chance to turn it around by getting your spouse, partner, sweetheart, or casual booty call something sexy you can both enjoy.

Below we’ve listed some of our favorite gifting options for this season, with everything from a simple collar to a luxury sex towel ready to be wrapped and delivered just in time to deck your sweet thing’s halls.

If you don’t see exactly what you’re looking for here, check out our other top picks for date night here or see our favorite stores for bedroom shopping here.

Lovehoney Glow-in-the-Dark Deluxe Mini Massage Wand Vibrator

By now, you probably know what a wand vibrator looks like and what it’s good for–a lot. Gift your lover a new, compact version adorned with magical glow-in-the-dark stars to really spark up the night and show them just how much you care.

Buy now £49.99, Lovehoney

Lelo Hex Condoms

Whether you’re still using condoms for birth control in a monogamous relationship, hooking up with multiple folks, or practicing polyamory, condoms might be an amazingly thoughtful gift to let a partner unwrap so they’re not stuck running to the drugstore in the heat of the moment. Indulge them in a luxurious brand like Lelo, whose Hex condoms feature a signature hexagonal structure which increases strength and allows for an incredibly thin feel.

Buy now £34.90, Lelo

Under the Bed Restraint System

Stay ready to get freaky when you wrap up this handy system of straps and restraints under the tree this year. Reviewers say setup is a breeze, plus you can use the straps in a variety of ways as you become more experienced in bondage. Think of it as an investment in your sexual future.

As of December 13th, you can use code TAKE45 and pay only $38.47!

Buy now £69.95, Adam & Eve

Shiny Black Gloves

With a slick feel and shiny look, these gloves mimic the look of the much more expensive latex versions, but they are affordable and less maintenance for you or your partner. If the shiny look is a little too intimidating, try these sparkly fishnet gloves to ease into things.

Buy now £17.95, Yandy

Edible Body Play Paints

They’re a little bit goofy, sure, but these edible body paints will undoubtedly inspire you to touch, explore, and be creative with each other’s bodies regardless of how hard you may laugh doing so. The point of sex is to have fun, right? It makes a great stocking stuffer, and no, we will not make the obvious joke here.

Buy now £15.29

Customizable Luxury Hand-Crafted Italian Leather Personalized Choker

Etsy is a great resource for custom leather goods, this collar included. It’s great for beginner wearers who aren’t quite ready for a full on harness set or posture collar, and you get up to eight letters that show off your partner’s favorite nickname.

Buy now £139.99, Etsy

Vesper Vibrator Necklace

A classic in the Goop catalog is this stunning gold necklace that looks like any other classy accessory but transforms into a tiny bullet vibrator for after-dinner activity. This quite toy is stainless steel coated in 24k gold, waterproof (aka easy to clean), and has four speeds and two modes to optimize pleasure the way your partner likes it.

Buy now £149.00, Goop

Couples Camera Set

Looking to dabble in some sexy photography but not quite ready to commit to having digital copies of your birthday suit out there in the wild? Snag this camera and year’s worth of adventure dates that will encourage you to get out of your comfort zone and explore the world around you while discovering fun new sides to your partner.

Buy now £129.99, The Adventure Challenge

Ssense White Sex Towel

Everyone has “that” towel or rag or old tee shirt for post-coital cleanup, but a nice gesture this holiday season would be to upgrade to the plush towel so you’re both feeling cared for after your next mattress session.

Buy now £113.00, Ssense

Phreak Dovah

For the lover who’s tried it all, give the gift of creativity with this truly out-there dildo that comes in a variety of sizes, starting at “Extra Small” (6.2 inches) for just over $50 and increasing in size until you reach the girthy Goliath (a whopping 14.5 inches) for $186.85. It comes in dozens of color and print combinations, and you can customize the density for a softer or firmer ride.

Buy now £50.16, Phreak

Nasty Gal Twelve Days Of Sexmas Sex Toy Advent Calendar

If you can’t decide on just one sexy gift for your partner, try this Sexmas advent calendar for a truly memorable countdown and you’ll receive the following:

–kegel toning balls

–a love dice and nipple clamps set

–a tapered bullet vibrator

–chocolate edible body paint

–silicone vibrator and cock ring set

–feather tickler and cuffs

–g-spot rabbit vibrator

–pheromone massage candle and spray

–vibrating butt plug

–bondage tape and blindfold set

–vibrating clitoral tickler

We already love Nasty Gal for their clothing and accessory options. so naturally we think the packaging, variety, and value is fantastic here, too.

Buy now £111.00, Nasty Gal

Creepy Yeyha Maliya Harness ( Black + Silver )

If your partner is ready for a full harness, one of your best bets is to hit independent designer Creepy Yeyha’s store for a whole range of stunning wearables that comes in a variety of classic and creative colors and both gold and silver tone metals to please everyone’s personal aesthetic.

Buy now £375.00, Creepy Yeyha

Silk Teddy

It’s a little retro, very sensual, and the size range extends from XXS to 4x. We love the near-universally flattering bronze tone.

Buy now £118.00, SKIMS

Tom Ford Cotton Boxer Brief Two Pack

Masc folks want nice underthings, too, so wrap up these fancy-pants Tom Ford boxers to truly treat your honey to something sweet.

Buy now £99.00, Tom Ford

Send Moods Candle Set

Influencer, makeup artist, business woman, and all-around force of nature Jackie Aina may not have created these candles with only sex on the mind, but the humor and incredible scents will certainly put you in the right mindset to enjoy your evening however you see fit. Buy now before they sell out again.

Buy now £143.00, Forvr Mood

Bangover Prevention Kit™

We don’t need to spell out what a bangover is for you to understand its meaning, but let these products do the talking anyway. In this sexual wellness kit, you’ll receive:

–12-pack of Lovability branded condoms

–”Your Vajesty” compact mirror for checking down there before sex

–two one-ounce tubes of HALLELUBEYAH

–a “No Fuckboy Zone” door hanger

–Quickies toilettes

And plenty more to make sure the scene is set for your next naughty rendezveous. This also makes a great gift for your girlfriends!

Buy now £65.00, Lovability

Fringed Beauty Chemise Set

This chemise drapes ever-so-beautifully on all types of curves, so make your partner feel drop dead gorgeous this holiday when they slip into it once the festivities are complete.

Buy now £44.95, Yandy

Rear Assets Small Jewelled Rainbow Heart Metal Butt Plug

With a nice weight, beginner-to-intermediate size, and gorgeous rainbow color, this is an ideal butt plug for the curiously minded and experienced users alike. If the colorful appearance isn’t quite what you’re looking for, there’s also the more simple black silicone version.

Buy now £24.49, Lovehoney

Multifunctional Weightless Position Bouncer Chair

This product is great for anyone, especially those who might be dealing with disabilities or just a lack of thigh strength to keep the mojo going while on top. Since this won’t be inserted or otherwise need to be body-safe, skip the fancy online boutiques that are selling these for an astronomical markup and order direct from Wish.

Buy now £34.59, Wish

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